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I have been getting ladies together every year having Vision Board parties. It has been so fun and the last one we had, a lady actually spoke to me, “You are going to receive as many blessings as all of these ladies put together for having these gatherings.” I thought, “Wow that’s lots!” But I have to say that EVERYTHING on my Vision Board is coming to pass this year in a remarkable way!!

I have had amazing things coming across my path!I have reached a place of freedom and a place of staying out of negativity and drama. The more we focus on positive things and hear the Father’s Voice, the more positive things come our way!! We are meant to have life more abundantly!!

Financial blessings have come our way this year…we got our debt paid off, now heading to more financially per month. I was always pretty positive, but I hadn’t been able to get my Christian walk activated in enough power to help me overcome the drama and negativity.

I realize that I have to have these power moments of meditation everyday to help activate momentum and velocity in my life. I will put another one on today. I am in the process of getting a YouTube channel going to post all the many different subjects that I come up with that we deal with in life.

If we can’t get to a place of clarity and peace in our hearts and mind each day, we can’t walk out our destiny. I have so many different relationships and people coming across my path and I have to get peace of mind, clarity and truth in operation.

If you have a moment, maybe 12 minutes to get calm and settled just listen to this and see how it affects your life. Blessings to you today….

https://www.dropbox.com/s/fc532aao31zmr2w/Ungodly%20beliefs.m4a?dl=0

Listen and soak in this…

Vision attracts more vision

Positivity attracts more positivity

Love attracts more love

Joy attracts more joy

Blessing others attracts more blessings

It really is true…

My third book coming…

See you soon…

I have had a busy summer and many different things have happened. If you’ve been here a while you would know that Marty and I were to be qualified to work for a Healing House Network.

We had been going the direction of designing our own brand after I published a book, and the coach that I was working with suddenly came down with a brain tumor.

One night I had a dream and I saw a “Y” in the road and knew that we were supposed to go another direction. I automatically thought this meant toward the Healing House Network. We started doing everything that we could to pursue it, along with a financial blessing from someone to help.

We would have been having people sent to us and we would minister to them. One morning before the sweet lady came to our home I started crying in the shower and my heart was for the region that we live in. I’ve lived here for 15 years and I’ve seen the hardship and struggles that some of the folks have here. Every region has their own struggles.

I’m thankful for the freedom that Marty and I have received, through Restoring the Foundations and Recovery Meetings, along with our Pastor and Church so that we can survive and thrive here. The lady that was my coach did pass away but I learned many things from her and she had so much encouragement and belief in what we represent.

I started thinking that morning that we were supposed to stay connected with our Pastor and our Church and concentrate on anyone in this region that needs help. The couple that got ministry while we were being “qualified” have changed lives now and we are so grateful for that.

The day after we made the decision to stay connected with our Pastor we received a financial blessing that paid for all money that we had paid for coaching, courses, qualifying and anything else that we had spent money for. We got a pontoon boat too. We just had to have fun in our process.

I’ve learned along the way that many things are just “stepping stones” toward the real picture and that’s what these things had been. Another door had been closed. It takes a minute (or months) sometimes to process what has been going on.

Sure enough another piece of the puzzle has shown up. I had just been introduced to another ministry very similar to what we had been going through and was taking a course, along with writing a 3rd book. I was talking a lot about memories and emotions in my book when I got an email from this new ministry telling me that they had been working on a course about healing emotions for a year.

Well, I had already been involved in classes, coaches, courses and anything else you can think of and Marty was about to the end of his rope with it and didn’t want to get debt rolling again after it had just been paid off. I listened to some of the free sessions and it talked a lot about meditation and healing emotions and actually walking through these meditations to get free and hear your Father’s voice.

I finally convinced him that I HAD to do this and I must say that it’s the wisest $97 dollars that I ever spent. I am still not to the end of the course but I have seen an example of what I have in my heart to do. Oh and the $97 didn’t get us in any debt anyway.

I have always been a hairstylist and interested in spa related things and this brings many things together for me…healing spiritually, physically and emotionally… that’s been my dream that God put in my heart forever. Another tool in our belt. I was excited to hear that they are in good relationship with the other ministry that we had been involved in.

I am going to try to put an example of what I’m doing on here, this is just a baby step of it all, but it’s a stepping stone.

https://www.dropbox.com/s/gtp3v2vg5be66uk/New%20Recording%208.m4a?dl=0

I’ve had to chase away lots of negative thoughts and just plunge in and share this!❤️

Just take the plunge!!🌊

It feels good!

Freedom is wonderful!!

Don’t let any wrong thoughts hold you back!!

See you soon!!😘

My last question was finding your why… this time the question is Where are you headed?

Are you feeling passionate about something and keep running into something around you that you are finding solutions for, but you see a group of people going around and around the same old mountain and never finding the solution.

You may be a forerunner for a certain cause! A forerunner is a person or thing that precedes the coming or development of something or someone else.

This means change within us, and it also means within the people we deal with and our atmosphere. Sometimes we have to step back from status quo thinking and work on ourselves. We have to find solutions in our lives so we can help find solutions in the lives of others.

It’s not easy being a creator…sometimes people think you are crazy, sometimes people don’t want to follow and sometimes they don’t even understand what you are saying. That’s okay, there will be the ones that need to hear your voice…that are tired of being stuck and want to change.

Insanity is doing things the same way and expecting a different result. Insanity is being stuck and being in a rut. There are so many different “systems” that families, businesses, and churches have. I think one of the biggest mistake most “groups” have is getting stuck in the same old patterns and not being willing and open to the new!!

Sometimes even the “new” is done in the same old way! I am someone that was thrown into change after change after change in my life so it made me comfortable with change and open to learn new ways of survival. Being in a box no longer works for me! I have seen a better way than that!

If you are needing help finding your “why” or your “where” contact me. We can talk about this! Until we’ve blazed a trail, we can’t help another blaze a trail. We have to have a process to follow and a plan or we keep going around that mountain!

We have to do it ourselves!

We have to care about others!

We have to love relationship!

We have to understand boundaries!

We have to be in God’s will and purpose!

We have to be in the right timing!

We can do this!

See you soon!

I remember hearing this question many, many years ago. At the time I really wasn’t sure about my why. I had some thoughts about it, but not real positive what it was.

I knew that when I was raped that I was assured it was supposed to be used for a purpose. In fact, knowing that is what helped me survive and recover from it.

Many traumas that people go through are used down the road to make a mark in this world and help other people. I just didn’t know how to get started.

There were many, many steps along the way. Every step is getting closer. There are times to fall down, there are times that we think we have arrived, only to see that we are back at square one again… not one thing is wasted in the process.

EACH STEP IS IMPORTANT‼️ EACH STEP IS CREATING OUR WHY‼️

We don’t have to have the whole picture at the beginning…we just need to start! Any step that we can take is welcome. There were times that I was surrounded by so much darkness that the only step I could make was to go to a counselor. Yes, working on ourselves is probably one of the biggest, best steps that we can make for our progress!

Usually our thinking and our own mindsets would be exactly what would hold us back! They are not allowed to stay in order for us to move forward! We have to let ourselves be vulnerable and transparent and learn the lessons that we are supposed to learn along the way.

The lessons that cause us to die to the things that we thought we would do and pick up the plans and creativity that we are put on this earth to do! The things that we were put on earth to do are more supernatural than the things we thought we were supposed to do! At least mine have been!

Let’s face it we don’t go through a rape and not change to a different person. We don’t go through divorces and not change to a different person! We don’t walk through dark areas of life and not change into a different person! The thing that I personally learned was that if we make the right choices during that time, we have the authority to conquer those things and to help others do the same!

You can imagine that it has been a battle to get to the place where I have the confidence to open up and let my voice come forth. It also had to be tempered to the place where I didn’t just blurt out everything to everyone and that’s there all of the steps, little by little that I took were so powerful! They changed me from the inside out and gave me power to help others! It’s been hard, but hard is nothing… hard is a good thing! Hard makes it worthwhile!

We don’t need to try to keep people from anything that is hard… that is what makes us or breaks us! That’s where we get to the core of our being!

Step out and start!

It will change you!

It won’t be wasted!

Don’t despise humble beginnings!

You can do it!

See you soon!💜

Wow!! Things have changed around here!! Much #re-modeling completed! Much #re-storing in my heart and insides too. I will tell you all about these things!!

It all started with my Vision Board at the beginning of the year! Many things that I wrote, I had no clue why I was writing it but it just came to me. There were many #re-words on it! When you think about it, #re means a #re-peat a do-over, and second chance, a new beginning!

We all need that sometimes don’t we? First of all, my kitchen got that:

When we started, we had no idea that we would do this much, but once we took the plunge and started, the creativity started flowing.

Even furniture #re-furbished

All of this furniture used to be just regular wicker furniture with glass tops, my friend covered the cushions to match and Marty painted to boards to #re-place the glass!

We didn’t spend a ton of money, lots of it was done with paint and perseverance. I got lots of ideas and Marty and I worked together making it happen. It was not all easy and some days went slow, but I sincerely believe that because I had written it down on my vision board at the beginning of the year, all the power from God and the Universe were invited to work in our behalf.

My past was not glorious and I come from rape, poverty, and divorce… but I had a belief deep down inside that things would get better and I remember telling my children exactly that, when they were little. Sometimes I thought I was crazy telling them that, but I knew it would eventually happen. I knew there was a special purpose for my life and my stories, and it was to help others.

I have written 2 books now, this is the first, and working on the 3rd.

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B075RR686Z/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_awdb_t1_RqT1CbHNQDNZ8

We are now waiting for the day, June 10th, to be qualified to work with the Healing House Network for #Restoring the Foundations Ministries which happens to be another #Re-word!! Of course that is something that Marty and I need to be doing… helping #re-store people’s lives!! I have to say that there is nothing that I would rather be doing to leave behind my mark in this world!

For far too long, I have felt that church needed to take on a different form… providing more help for #re-storing our lives. Not just telling us what to do, actually helping us do it!!

Please don’t ever think that you are different and that your life can’t be used to help others. I pray for you today that a belief is being imparted in you just from hearing my story and you can stop waiting and start do-ing and even #re-do-ing if you have to.

Little baby steps is what it takes to get something accomplished! We need help to get rolling sometimes! I have reached out for ALL kinds of help in every way!! We can’t do it alone!!

I offer 2 free phone calls until the end of May if you need some encouragement to get a plan to get rolling!

You are unique… your call is not like mine!

Belief comes from hearing!

Get help if you need it!

We can’t do everything alone!

We have to get out of our comfort zone!

We need strategy, perseverance and new mindsets!

Surrender your past and get #restored!

I am cheering you on, but you have to take the ACTION!!

See you soon!❤️