Category: Self Help

It’s so nice to have good connections that you can trust! There was quite a while that I had to stay in my own lane and concentrate on finding my own identity and destiny. Now it is starting to feel like a breakout and breakthrough time.

In many ways there are some major divine connections happening. Mainly these connections are sent to help me help others. We just can’t rise up and do what we are supposed to do alone!

Do you have people surrounding you to pray for you, to hold your arms up whenever things are hard, and to believe in you? I am so grateful that I can say that I do! While I was having to stay in my lane, it felt like some were gone, but in the right timing, just the right connections are showing up!

I’ve had to fight through some mindsets and even forgiveness about things to breakthrough into the new! The new is a great place to be! When we are feeling all alone we have to face some feelings of rejection. We even have to forgive people that we feel have let us down. Sometimes we start feeling like a victim.

We can’t expect good things out of the wrong people. The right people will appear if we have the right attitude and are ready to receive them. If we are in a wrong attitude nothing can please us and seem right.

If we have a quiet, staying in our own lane time, just remember that it is a good time to work on our own self and be ready to welcome the new! We want to be prepared for our new alignments!

Are you ready to trust new connections? Can you think of anything that may hold you back?

It’s time now, the things are getting set up, the people are in place, and it is time❣️

Let’s do this!

Time to align!

Time to build that team!

Remember gratitude!

Ready, set, GO!

Step into alignment and destiny!

See you soon!❤️

~jill 🌸

What are the lies that come to you? I’m to old, I’m too shy, I don’t know enough, I’m too mean! There are always voices coming to us trying to stop us!

What are some things that we can do to stop these lies and move forward? We need to look at a common theme that is always there throughout our lives! Usually the thing that we have had the hardest time with. That’s the thing that we have become an expert on.

Mine is trauma. In a matter of 15 years I got raped at knifepoint, went through 3 marriages and divorces, my parents got divorced after 43 years of marriage. Trauma became a theme in my life. A series of events that set my life on a track where the only thing that I could do was to pursue God and get help! I didn’t have any other direction to go, I would have sank! After doing this so desperately for years it became my call, my reason to get up and breath another day.

It’s turned into my hobby. There have been some things that could have stopped me dead in my tracks and I’ve had to learn to take the adversity and turn it to the thing that challenged me to come up higher.

Helping someone else succeed and helping inspire them, became the thing that gave me joy and gave me power! Every once in a while I will get a little stumped on something and I have a group of people all around me to speak into me and help me stay on track! I really do appreciate my tribe and my connections!

Do you have a tribe around you to help hold your arms up when you need it? People that you can be honest with and will pray for you? Not a bad idea to start looking and seeing who they are. Those little lies need to stop!

Write down your connections. The people that God has surrounded you with! The ones you contact if you get tripped up! Remember we all get fooled and lied to at times!

You DO have a purpose! Yours may be similar to mine! Yours may be completely different! It will most likely be that theme of events that has gone on forever and you can’t seem to get away from it!

Find your purpose!

Write your vision!

Pursue your dreams!

Destiny will appear!

Invest in yourself to get help!

Read books, watch videos, find a coach!

Counteract those lies!

You can do this!

Need help? Contact me!

See you soon!

~jill 🌸

No matter what is going on in this world it is still time to find our purpose. It’s not time to give up, it’s not time to stop dreaming. It’s not time to think that the slowing down will stop our dreams.

There are hurting people that need help, more so than ever. It’s time for our voices to be heard. It’s time to get connected to the people that can hook us up with our highest potential. Negativity just will not fit where we need to go. Is something tearing you down or not serving you well? You just have to let it go!

We have to learn to read books by people that have walked where we need to walk and done things that we want to accomplish. We need to be inspired to find our gifts and what makes us passionate!

We need to stop finding all the things that are wrong in our lives and start thinking about all the things that are right. We have to get creative and find ways to help others succeed! If we can’t be happy be happy for someone that is doing wonderful! Learn from them and be teachable.

We need to stop thinking that everyone just wants our money and we don’t need to hear what they have to say. Sometimes it is time to invest in ourselves. We are the best investment that we can make and we are definitely worth it.

All we need is faith the size of a mustard seed… that is very small… and we can start moving mountains! We sometimes need to get help if we can’t find even that size of faith. It’s there, we just need to build it up like a muscle.

Sooo let’s do this! Let’s find people that we need to be like, let’s listen to their YouTube messages, read their books, and get fed into our spirits what they are doing to get where they are and be who they are. It’s our responsibility to fulfill our destiny, dreams and not give up!

We grow when we are outside of our comfort zone. Let’s make this change in our world a time of growth! Let’s be around people that are thriving not just surviving! We are on this earth a short time, let’s make the best of it and make it count! Shine where you are supposed to shine!

Set those goals and accomplish them!

Time for the excuses to stop!

We can’t blame others for our unhappiness!

It’s time to stand up and make a difference!

We only live once with only so many days!

Let’s make each day count!

See you soon!!

~jill🌸

Something that I’ve learned early on is to adjust and go with what is going on. If things seem crazy and chaotic, I’ve had to see what all I could learn from the situation. Mostly I’ve had to learn how much my Father is large and in charge of everything.

If things feel too huge for me, I’ve had to learn to Let go and Let God handle it. These things may sound like little cliche quotes, but in a time of need and despair they are powerful.

I’m not talking about just some little fluffy things here guys! I’m talking about letting go in huge life or death situations and times when you or someone that you know can be going down the tubes! Yes I’ve been through many things like that or know friends or family members that have and my Father has come through every single time, right on time!

Fear is a liar! False evidence appearing real is so, so true! I have had to stay away from false things so that I could have peace in my heart and soul! Many things being presented to us may be false about ourselves or even about others so I just keep my mind on my Father.

“Be prepared. You’re up against far more than you can handle on your own. Take all the help you can get, every weapon God has issued, so that when it’s all over but the shouting you’ll still be on your feet. Truth, righteousness, peace, faith, and salvation are more than words. Learn how to apply them. You’ll need them throughout your life. God’s Word is an indispensable weapon. In the same way, prayer is essential in this ongoing warfare. Pray hard and long. Pray for your brothers and sisters. Keep your eyes open. Keep each other’s spirits up so that no one falls behind or drops out.”

‭‭Ephesians‬ ‭6:13-18‬ ‭MSG‬‬

The Bible has many words of peace, truth and comfort. My Father is always full of love for me. He always makes a way of escape for me. He never favors any person over another. We all just have different walks in life. We have different stories to tell. We have different ways that we are to help others.

My stories are of many calamities and overcoming them. Overcoming to the place of thriving is the most exciting thing that can happen! Learning how to not live in self pity when bad things happen, but turning them around to good!

Many things got accomplished while I have been walking through tremendous trials and it wasn’t always me doing it! It was a power greater than myself working through me!

I think that you will find through history, some of the most powerful people were ones that endured much persecution, adversity, and trauma but yet kept going!

If you need help let me know, we can do a free call!

Sometimes we just need people to listen!

Don’t give up in the hardest time, things can change so quickly!

We can fight this together!

My Father makes a way in the wilderness! He’s really done that in real life!

Bless your day!

Find the good things and golden nuggets in your day!

You’ve got this!!

See you soon!

~jill🌸

There are many things that have changed and been gone from my life recently and I’m sure you have experienced the same.

Yesterday on Mother’s Day I noticed some of the little things that have been added that have seemed small but they mean everything to me.

One thing, the other evening Marty and I got to go for a real date night across the state line where a restaurant was really, really open! I can’t tell you how much we appreciated that! And, oh that tea to go!! Wow! It was wonderful!

Yesterday we went to drive up church and I got a bright pink ink pen and a Cookies n’ Cream Hershey’s candy bar… what another precious gift!

That wasn’t the only gift I got there! I got to be in a car next to a lady that I had worked in a salon with for several years. I had just thought of her daughter recently, that had special needs, that I used to get to talk to in the shop. Sure enough, there she was! This girl is the sweetest girl ever and she was rocking out to the praise and worship music just like we were.

We sent her a thumbs up and she sent one back! It’s the little things! Then this morning I got this message!

This was a special gift that I got this morning! I was grieving some past things not being the same anymore but realized just today that new beginnings are happening… new things are rising up…. that the past is gone… it’s a new day and I don’t want to go back! I’ve changed and I like the change!

New ideas are coming to me… new ways of doing things! I’ve been waiting for this to show up and it is finally coming clear to me!

Breakthrough into the new!

Don’t keep going over old history!

New connections are around every corner!

Serve the new connections don’t try to bring the old ones back to life!

We got this!

~jill🌸

“This is what GOD says, the God who builds a road right through the ocean, who carves a path through pounding waves, The God who summons horses and chariots and armies— they lie down and then can’t get up; they’re snuffed out like so many candles: “Forget about what’s happened; don’t keep going over old history. Be alert, be present. I’m about to do something brand-new. It’s bursting out! Don’t you see it? There it is! I’m making a road through the desert, rivers in the badlands. Wild animals will say ‘Thank you!’ —the coyotes and the buzzards— Because I provided water in the desert, rivers through the sun-baked earth, Drinking water for the people I chose, the people I made especially for myself, a people custom-made to praise me.”

‭‭Isaiah‬ ‭43:16-21‬ ‭MSG‬‬

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